1.) One comment I heard to another girl that had a baby around the same time I had Cadence, I over heard the conversation these two girls were having and one said to the other "Wow you look so good, you cant even tell you just had a baby." It was like I had a knife in my stomach, I wanted someone to tell me that stuff, not look at me in the corner of their eye and say oh shes the one that lost her baby? Or I'm so sorry for your loss.. I wanted to scream.. I don't know why that hurt me so bad..
2.) I hate hearing people complain about being pregnant.. You don't know what an amazing gift you have, so quit complaining.. I can honestly say I never complained not even when I was throwing up all day, or when I had no energy, or when I couldn't sleep.. I knew that my body had an amazing responsibility and I loved every minute of it!
I wanted so badly to be telling people how easy labor was, and that getting induced wasn't as bad as I heard it was.. I wanted to tell people all about my Daughter... But who would want to listen? My heart was falling apart more and more every day..
I hate it when people ask "When are you going to have another?" I have no answer to that question, so don't ask me.. The Lord will decided that.. My Daughter is all I need right now, I have the perfect family with her and Kale..
Or how about "your young" and "it just wasn't meant to be." Every time I hear that I just would like to punch that person in the face..
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